Hmmm….I’ve always been wondering how writers get their inspiration in writing their own novels or their own masterpieces. Guess it all comes down to their environment or sometimes something just came up when they see or feel something. I think this is some what similar to the human body’s memory bank. Why do I say that? Well visualize this…there was this fragrant smell such as a perfume that you had liked and you had smelled this countless times. Then you had not smelled this smell for a long long time and then suddenly out of nowhere, that familiar smell came up. Suddenly your brain might trigger the image and the feelings that you once had when you were picking up the scent of that familiar smell. Why do I say that? Well visualize this…there was this fragrant smell such as a perfume that you had liked and you had smelled this countless times. Then you had not smelled this smell for a long long time and then suddenly out of nowhere, that familiar smell came up. Suddenly your brain might trigger the image and the feelings that you once had when you were picking up the scent of that familiar smell. This is just my version of how sometimes things are being recalled back that had happened so long ago but then was being kept at the back of the mind
Let’s move on to other things. Last evening, I had tea with two good brothers. I mean time could really change and mature some but not all of people’s thought and also their perspective regarding life. There were many topics that were being involved in that tea-drinking session. I would agree to most of the arguments being made. This is something like a debate here. Marriage, work ethics, principles and world economy were some of the things that was being said. The main topic that was being discussed was regarding marriage. Well this year most of my friends are getting married. From the beginning of the year till the end. Well…guess it time for some of them. As a matter of fact there’s no harm in learning something new everyday. Hahahaha! Just to have certain preparation for myself before I really decided to tie the knot together with my ‘unknown’ other half yet. Lol!
Marriage
This is something that a big percentage of us would require to go through. Guess its one of the way of life. One might think that why should it be a requirement. Well till now I had no idea. Guess it should be something concerning human passing down generation kind of thing. Getting married is not an easy task to do so. It involves lots of planning, budgeting and all other skills that is required to make it a great success. One might say that it is a once in a life thing but then this might not apply to some though. Getting photos taken, planning out for who to invite and how the logistics of all these things should be done in order to the whole thing to fall into place and hopes nothing would go wrong during the actual day. Phew….!! Just talking about it would require some time for me to finish all of it. As for Chinese community, we would require to pick out a good date that is meant for both the bride and the groom to get married. It is like a traditional custom and guess its in our blood. Some might say that it is superstitious but however there will be some time that we would blame it on superstition once if something was wrong. So I’ll just say let’s not risk it. Hai….look at the movies where when they want to get married, it is just so easy for them. However this is the real life and nothing is as easy as it seems. Most of it require hard work and dedication for all of it to come into place. Getting married is also considered one of the important knowledge in life. One require dedication and getting ready to get married. When one was single, all he or she need to think about it themselves and also their family. However right now…its more than that. Both the husband and wife are required to work hand in hand to a common goal in order for it to make anything happen. A person perspective in life during marriage changed so much that it is a must to do it. You loose some you gain some. No one is being able to win them all.
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