Wednesday, February 11, 2009

A Little Bit of Courtesy Goes A Long Way.

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Ahhh….today’s topic going to be a little bit more of the bookish type. Let’s ask everyone what is the meaning of courtesy? Well according to a source cited from http://ardictionary.com/, it gives courtesy a meaning of ‘a courteous or respectful or considerate act’. Recently there have been quite a few happenings that kind of upsets and at the same time bring sadness into my days. Why do you say so? Hmmm…let’s see…all in all, it won’t kill you to ask someone whether he or she wanted to come along even though you don’t see him today. It might be a small matter but however its just plain old annoying. Take for example, last night I really had the intention of asking a friend of mine to go dinner together and I have no idea on what is the upcoming event that had been in store for me. Once I reached there, I saw a lot of familiar faces and suddenly it struck me real hard. I was planning to just leave as I somehow felt unwelcomed as there were no invitation given to me. Looking at it, I was kind of pissed and come to think of it, I just decided to stay around as not to bring something not nice to other people especially to my friend. To me it just felt intentional but then when there are reasons to cover everything up which I find its just plain bullshit. I might  be over sensitive but then I should be getting over it. Things had just been so bland and I somehow is losing faith in all these things.

188397935_d8e04663bf Right now I am having a bad case of sore throat and also a minor flu. Just hope for the best to come and my sickness comes to an end soon. Hmmm….shit….is this some signs that I am being emo. Damn….!!!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

get well soon,...don think too much. all this is karma i suppose.
i dont know how you treat people, but i personally thinks that if you treat people good enough they will treat you the same way too.

i dont know you will agree to this or not but then, be happy alright and get well soon.

yours blog fans.

Anonymous said...

mayb it's just a misunderstand for all, cos wat i read u had a fever and running nose then mayb your friends would skip to invite you to their functions or whatever event it is. who might know not all your friends wouldn't know that your participation wasn't there. i feel sad for u too and hope for you fast recovery.

Jhun said...

Lol...Never knew there will be people reading my crap. Well the treating people nice and all those stuffs depends on the level and also how was it being treated. Karma or not karma...I've been nice to other people but then it seems I've been exploited in a sense that its just plain sad. So guess I've kind of lost hope in all these things. I cant deny saying that the way I treat people might annoy people but then what about others? Are their actions being accepted by almost everyone? Guess this is where everything contradicts...Well...thanks for all the readers and their comments. Well I guess I felt much better in terms of being sick...

Anonymous said...

y so sad?life is give and take.what u eat is what u shit, what u give is what u take. u take too much u have to pay.do some more good deeds and it will be pay off.we think u need to change to improve yourself for everyone to love you. so valentine day you can be with the bachelor gathering.may god bless you, be successful.

Anonymous said...

Guess different people have different perception. All I can say is that life is not as equal as you may think it might be. To me you think its like alchemy. In alchemy, you will need to pay an equal price to pay in order to have an exchange of equal value of things. Its such a grey area in how people percept these kinds of situation. For example, would you agree in gay marriage?