Some Commenting

Why do most people seem to fall for their friend at one point or another?

It's because, we see a great person, someone who knows us inside and out, someone who has been there when we were down, someone who knows what makes us laugh and what makes us cry...someone who cares...

We see the perfect someone in our friend, but what we don't see, is that as soon as we take that next step, they will turn into someone we never knew at all....

Pathetic truth.

At some point here, this section was somehow taken from a friend which I knew and had accidentally bumped into her blog site. Its a rare thing to be seeing her writing stuffs which are quite true and I guess I might have been enlightened.

There are many different angles which people might see in this situation. How do I put it in words? Say in a scenario where this is between a girl and a boy. Different people had different perspectives regarding the way of life and so on and so forth. As for the first part which was being mentioned, I guess it can be said as a caring friend or maybe a soul mate but nothing more. Not until where they are more than friends. Something much deeper where they are connected as becoming more like lovers and wanted some change in their relationship. However I do not see this coming. As sometimes being too close to a person, they might have built something up as both of them cared for each other so much. The other person might be more caring than the other and so the other person might have a wrong impression or vibe coming which might lead to misunderstanding. Sometimes things might not turn out so bad when either one of them confessed. However sometimes things might not end up like in the movies or the fairy tale. I am not saying that its not possible. This some what made their relationship more closer and being more understandable with each other. All I can say sometimes being too much of a good friend where both knew each other's personality quite well, its kind of hard to walk the path of lovers.

I might not be a guru in relationship like some others but then sometimes its not a loss not to try something out. People of all walks of life had different experiences in everything and so therefore they might have different solutions to different problems. Human beings are not perfect and all of them are so different not only in appearances but also in their personalities. This what makes human being so unique. Being too perfect somehow brings chaos and a lot of difficulties too. Do you know why? This is because there are no perfect human beings here.

Oh well I somehow love to give quite a comments into many different topics which I in turn interested in. There are so many questions that are popping in my mind but have no idea on what to ask first. I understand right now that when I was still in middle school, I regard all my friends as my friends. However as when I started to go college, to university and then to work, I found out that there are many versions of friends. Some are good, some are helpful, some are evil in some ways, some are just plain trouble makers or maybe some are just bloody annoying where they wanted each and every details of your life where later or so the whole world would know. I might be a bit one sided to be saying all these but then after a couple of trials and errors, there are no right or wrong in all these things. These all depends on how you 'find' them. Till today, I can still say that I had found a couple of great friends and I am thankful enough.

Chap Go Meh

Well today marks the end of the Chinese New Year and so traditionally there will be a great feast among family members. Other than that other festive 'activities' are coming to an end. Hehe! Well ar they all say 'All Good Things Must Come To An End'. The year of the rat will be something that I'm looking forward to and let's see what is in store for me. I would definitely wished for more money, promotion and what more good health to my family.

A Trip To The Other Side & Back

During the weekend, it was consider to be like a marathon. Well why do I say that? Its because we had been going here and there non-stop. So right now I am agonizing on how tired I am right now and furthermore with kind of a gaining weight problem. Damn....Grrr....Ate too much during Chinese New Year. Those food are simply irresistible.

As for starters, I had a day off on Saturday as a friend of mine had decided to come over to Brunei to pay me a visit. However I was being 'put airplane'. There were no contacts whatsoever. I was wondering what really happened to him though. So in the late afternoon, I went over to Wen's house to play 'red dot'. Quite enjoyable. Overall I did not loose much...Phew!! Lucky me. After that we were getting ready to go down to Miri to attend a friend's engagement party. Before that, upon arriving at Miri we did a bit of shopping and had a light dinner. Went to the 'Halo Cafe' and I can say that I am impressed. I love the ambience and environment there. Might consider going there at another time. Then went over to Ryan's house. Interesting enough, there are security around the place he stayed. As some of you might know that Senadin is quite famous for its break-ins. I've even heard a house can be broken in 4 or 5 times. So I guess the place he's staying is good. Had a few good laughs at his house and we all went over to Chyn's house to stay for the night.

For the next day, we woke up quite late and decided to go for 'dim sum' at the Grand Palace Hotel. People said having 'dim sum' might be for breakfast but for us I guess its more of a lunch thing. Having a full stomach, all of us wanted to do some shopping but then something happened. Wen's car was in a pitch where his car battery gone flat. After 2 to 3 hours, his car was finally fixed. Alas....the weather is fucking hot too. All of us might need to endure it for the time being though. Then Ting was saying that every time he came down to Miri together with us, he might be in for a surprise. Hahaha! There was one time where my car battery was flat too and me and Ting were almost being charged for drug trafficking. However it turned out to be some kind of silicon powder. Phew!!!! As for the second time, my car had a flat tire in the middle of the bridge. Hahah! Of all the places.

After everything is done and all, we left Miri and arrived back in Brunei by about 7.30pm. Before we could say anything, we decided to like get ready to go for another house visiting or should I say 3 houses. We arrived at Ten's house and then went over to Joey's house and then last stop at Wendy's house. Phew...so damn tired when I finally reached home.

Another bad thing happened was that my laptop adapter finally ended her life. I went to buy another adapter. Arghhh....damn it. Money is again flowed out.

Cat Catch Fish?

Meowww....Looking at the cat makes people kind of excited and wanted to give them a pat or maybe try to attract their attention. This picture was taken at a friend's house. I was tired that time but then looking at the cat makes me laugh and had a bit of energy back to myself. Hahah! And so I asked the owner whether had the cat been fallen into the pond before and I was astonished at the answer. My friend told me that the cat did when it was kind of strolling along the side of the pond. Of boy...how I hope to had the chance to see that footage. I guess I will laugh my heart out. Cats are really kind of mysterious creatures to me though. Since ancient times, cats had been worshipped as a God in ancient Egypt. Cool...

Oh well I guess I can consider this as my favourite shot for the time being. And therefore people had a greatttttttttt day as I did not had one myself. Damn busy....going to grumble like an old man soon....Hahahha!

Yo!

Haha! Before new year, this is my new hairstyle. Kind of funky though. However I liked it. Haha!

I Want One...

As what the title implies...this does not mean I want this but then its favourable though. Lets cut the crap...this is one of the best quote that I've heard for the day. My good friend was wanting to get a new laptop and so we went to the shop to do some survey and finally he come to a conclusion of getting a HP laptop. So we went to the sales assistant and he told her 'I Want One...'. It just hit me and I started laughing. He laughed too as somehow that phrase was not quite appropriate. Haha!